By learning each of the 13 Commandments of Love you will experience love finding you.
“Can I Make Love Find Me?”
1ST COMMANDMENT OF LOVE
Human beings are trained to become self-sufficient in acquiring the life-sustaining energies in air, food and water. From the bottle, to learning to use a knife and a fork, to eventually getting a job, and their own income so they can buy, cook and eat their own food. We are also taught, unfortunately, to assume that loving energy, which science now has shown to be a much needed life-sustaining energy itself, can only come from other human beings. So….we spend the rest of our lives, ‘malnourished’, waiting for others to give us some love. This new knowledge point to the need for us to learn how to become self-sufficient in giving ourselves the life-sustaining energies in love.
Keep in Mind! Like food and water…Loving Energy is vital for your SUCCESS in every area of life.
Where Do I Start?
People often ask me “How do I love myself?” This information is essential knowledge and extremely important to practice.
My answer is – not by buying yourself neat ‘stuff’, eating and drinking great food, taking fantastic trips, hot baths with music and candles, a super massage, etc. although there is nothing wrong with doing those things.
The Answer Is Simple-
Fortunately most of you have friends and do a pretty good job at loving them. Much better than loving yourselves. Copy that behavior. We’re more patient, accepting, encouraging, appreciative, respectful, etc. with friends than ourselves. Start observing and behave more like your own best friend.
(Men rarely ask this question, and yet it is even more important for them to know, because they’ve been taught to love themselves even less. “Boys don’t cry” is a real killer example.)
Take these small steps…which actually generate a huge shift…and start metamorphosing into the authentic, confident, loving person you always envisioned yourself to be. There is nothing more attractive than that. Then let love find you!
Kudos for taking this step toward love! Now share this with family and friends who’re single, so they can love themselves, too.
- Is your Relationship Fitness keeping up with your physical fitness?
- Missing the mark finding the Love of Your Life?
- Better yet, have love find you instead of chasing after it!
If you are interested in attending a webinar Nov. 10 on this fascinating topic contact me at love@thdc.org.